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๐Ÿ‘ฏ Questions to Ask Your Best Friend

Think you know your best friend? These questions will help you discover new things about each other, reminisce about your friendship, and deepen your bond even further.

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โœ“ Road tripsโœ“ Wine nightsโœ“ Long FaceTime callsโœ“ Deepening your bond

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๐Ÿค”How Well Do You Know Me?

What's my biggest fear that I've told you about?

What's my go-to order at our favorite restaurant?

What's something I'm insecure about?

What's my most annoying habit?

What's my toxic trait?

What would I do if I won the lottery?

What's my dream job?

What's something I'm really proud of?

๐Ÿ’•Our Friendship

What's your favorite memory of us?

When did you know we'd be close friends?

What's the hardest thing we've been through together?

What's something I've done that really meant a lot to you?

How have I changed since you first met me?

What do you think makes our friendship work?

What's something you've never told me?

Where do you see our friendship in 10 years?

๐Ÿ’ญDeep & Honest

What's something you've been struggling with lately?

What's your biggest regret?

What's something you wish you could change about your life?

What are you most afraid of in the future?

What's something you've never told anyone?

When's the last time you cried and why?

What's the hardest lesson you've learned?

What do you need more of in your life right now?

๐ŸŽชFun & Hypotheticals

If we had to be roommates, what would drive you crazy about me?

What celebrity do you think I'm most like?

If we were in a horror movie, who would survive longer?

What's the most chaotic thing we could do together?

If we started a business, what would it be?

What would the title of my autobiography be?

What crime do you think I could commit?

If you had to set me up with someone, who would it be?

๐Ÿ‘€Opinions Please

What's something I should stop doing?

What's my best quality?

What's something you wish I'd do differently?

What's the worst advice I've ever given you?

What do you honestly think about my [dating life/job/etc]?

What's something you admire about me?

What's my blind spot?

If you could change one thing about me, what would it be?

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Tips for Asking These Questions

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Be ready to answer the same questions yourself

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Create a judgment-free zone - best friend conversations require trust

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Use these during long hangouts, road trips, or wine nights

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Don't be afraid to go deep - that's what best friends are for

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Save the really heavy stuff for when you have time to properly discuss

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